LeBron James’wife declines to upgrade best friend’s flight, kicking off hot debate

A comment by Savannah James, pictured above with her husband, LeBron James, has led others to debate online whether wealthier friends should pay for others to fly first class with them.(Brian Spurlock/Icon Sportswire via Getty Images)

“My friends are very respectful of my situation,” Savannah James said.“There’s no expectation of, like, taking care of something or, you know, just having me be responsible for them.It has never, ever been that.”

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This approach to traveling together has created debate online — with some people questioning whether the wealthier friend should pay the difference so that the group can sit together.

Diane Gottsman, a national Read More → Newly discovered asteroid turns out to be Tesla Roadster launched into space

“If you have a group of friends, and they are flying coach while you want to fly first class, there’s really nothing wrong with it as long as everyone is understanding and agreeable,” Gottsman said.

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Etiquette experts say there’s nothing wrong with friends choosing different airline cabins as long as everyone is comfortable with the arrangement.(iStock)

The situation changes, however, if someone feels excluded or uncomfortable, she said.

Even when one traveler has considerably more money to spend, Gottsman said that doesn’t make that person responsible for paying to upgrade everyone else.

“It’s not an obligation of the person who makes more money to upgrade everyone else,” she said.“Just take your seat up front and say you’ll see everyone when you land.”

“It’s really not that big of a deal.”

The arrangement shared by Savannah James and her friend April McDaniel drew sharplydifferent reactions from travelers online.

One commenter said that while friends should not feel entitled to someone else’s money, having significant wealth would make them want to share more of those experiences with people close to them.

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Savannah James, pictured at right with her husband, said her friends understand that traveling on planes with her does not mean she will automatically cover their expenses.(iStock;Michael Buckner/Variety via Getty Images)

“No one is entitled to anything,” the Reddit user wrote. 

The person added, “If we’rechildhood besties, and I have an abundance of wealth, I’m treating my friend to nice experiences!”

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Others saw nothing wrong with friends paying for the level oftravel they can each comfortably afford.

“I feel empowered to get what I can afford and not have my friends pay for me just because they have the money,” another person wrote.“I’m not her kid.”

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“It’s really not that big of a deal,” another user wrote.“It’s a plane ride.”

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