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Scam texts are annoying for everyone.For older adults with memory issues, they can become financially disastrous.Rob from Kennesaw,Georgia, is dealing with that exact situation.His mom uses her iPhone for nearly everything, and scam texts keep pulling her into links, purchases and political donation pages.His story shows why this problem needs more than another reminder to “be careful.”
Here’s what Rob asked us:
“My mom is 81 years old with mild dementia.She uses her iPhone for everything and gets bombarded with texts all day from scams and political campaigns.Last year, I found that she had given $25 to a campaign, and over about two months, they charged more than $5,000 across two cards.Fortunately, I disputed the charges and got the money refunded.The problem is, the texts keep coming.Every couple of weeks, she clicks something and buys a service she does not need.She tells me she does not remember doing it, but I can see the texts and browser history.I already have the new iOS text filter on, but she opens the filtered texts and starts looking through them.I am so frustrated.Is there a way to stop all texts except known contacts, or are there any other ideas?”
Rob, I get why you’re frustrated.You are doing the right thing by watching the accounts, disputing charges and trying to keep your mom safe.But with mild dementia involved, reminders only go so far.She may truly have no memory of clicking a link or buying something.
That means the phone needs more guardrails.The goal is to make risky texts harder to see, risky links harder to tap andsurprise charges harder to complete.You do that by tightening the phone, the carrier account, the payment setup and the bank alerts.
Let’s walk through the settings and safeguards that can help protect her while still letting her use the phone for the people and services she actually needs.
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SCAMMERS EXPLOITED MOM’S FEARS TO STEAL HER ENTIRE LIFE’S SAVINGS
An 81-year-old woman with mild dementia kept falling for scam texts despite built-in iPhone filters, prompting her son to seek stronger protections.(Photo by Tomohiro Ohsumi/Getty Images)
Why scam texts put aging parents at risk
A scam text may look obvious to you.For someone with mild dementia, it may look urgent, familiar or harmless.That matters because scammers rely on quick reactions.A text may say a package is delayed, a donation needs confirmation, or an account needs attention.One tap can lead to a payment page.One saved card can turn that tap into a charge.So, the goal changes.You are not trying to make your parent perfect at spotting scams.You are trying to reduce the number of risky choices that appear in front of them.
How to limit texts on an iPhone
If your parent uses an iPhone, start with Apple’s built-in Screen Time controls.The built-in iPhone option is Communication Limits.This setting can limit who can contact your parent through Phone, FaceTime, Messages and supported Apple communication features.
Before you start, make sure iCloud Contacts are turned on.Go toSettings >[your name] >iCloudand look underSaved to iCloudforContacts.Make sureContactsis enabled.You may need to tapSee AllorShow Allto find it.
On heriPhone:
- Go toSettings
- TapScreen Time
- TapTurn On Screen Time, if it has not already been enabled
- TapLock Screen Time Settings
- Set aScreen Time passcodethat only you know
- TapCommunication Limits
- TapDuring Screen Time
- ChooseContacts Only
Set the Screen Time passcode yourself.Avoid using a code your parent already knows or might guess.This passcode helps keep those settings from being changed later.
One important note:Contacts Onlyallows communication with people saved in Contacts.For tighter control, review her Contacts list and remove anyone unfamiliar.
How to use iPhone Downtime to reduce risky clicks
Downtime can make the iPhone quieter during certain hours.That can help if your loved one tends to click around at night or during times when you cannot check in.
To turn onDowntime:
- Go toSettings
- TapScreen Time
- TapDowntime
- Turn onScheduled
- Choose thedays and timesyou want Downtime to run
Then make sure trusted contacts can still get through:
- Go back toScreen Time
- TapCommunication Limits
- TapDuring Downtime
- ChooseSpecific Contacts
- SelectChoose From My Contacts
- Selecttrusted family, caregivers, doctorsandclose friends
- Click theblue circle with the check markin the upper-right of the screen
This may feel restrictive at first.However, if cards keep getting canceled and reissued, a safer setup can protect both her money and your peace of mind.
How to turn on iPhone spam text filtering
Apple’s message filtering can help.In newer versions of iOS, unknown senders can be sorted into a separate area.However, those messages may still be viewable, which is exactly the issue Rob described.His mom sees the badge, opens Messages and starts looking through filtered texts.
To check unknown sender filtering on aniPhone:
- Go toSettings
- TapApps
- TapMessages
- Scroll down toUnknown Sendersand turn onScreen Unknown Senders
Then checkspam filtering:
- Go toSettings
- TapApps
- OpenMessages
- Scroll down and turn onFilter Spam
Keep this on, but do not rely on it alone.If your parent can still open filtered texts and tap links, you need more protection.
How to remove the iPhone Messages badge
This is a small setting that can make a real difference.If the red Messages badge keeps pulling your parent back into the app, turn off badges for Messages.
To turn offMessages badges:
- Go toSettings
- TapNotifications
- Scroll down and tapMessages
- Turn offBadges
She can still receive texts.However, the red number will no longer invite her to hunt through filtered messages.For some families, that one change can reduce the urge to check every message.
How to reduce scam texts on a Samsung phone
If your parent uses a Samsung phone with the latest available Android and One UI software, start by checking for updates.
To check forsoftware updates:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- Go toSettings
- TapSoftware update
- TapDownload and install
- Follow anyon-screen promptsif an update is available
Then turn on spam protection inGoogleMessages:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- OpenGoogle Messages
- Tap theprofile icon
- TapMessages settings
- TapProtection &Safety
- TapSpam protection
- Turn onSpam protection
To block and report a scam text inGoogle Messages:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- OpenGoogle Messages
- Open thescam conversation
- Tap thethree dots
- TapDetails
- TapBlock &report spam
- TapYes
How to block scam calls on Samsung phones
Scam texts are the bigger issue in Rob’s case, but scam calls often come from the same world of bad actors.On a Samsung phone, turn on Samsung’s Caller ID and spam protection.
To turn it on:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- Open thePhoneapp
- Tap thethree dots
- TapSettings
- TapCaller ID and spam protection
- Turn onCaller ID and spam protection
Then turn on stronger spam blocking:
- TapBlock spam and scam calls
- Choose thestrongest blocking option available
Samsung says Galaxy phones can use Smart Call to identify suspected spam callers and block spam or scam calls.This will not stop every scam call.Still, it adds another layer.
How to limit risky apps on a Samsung phone
Samsung does not have the same Communication Limits setup as the iPhone.However, you can still reduce risk with Digital Wellbeing and parental controls.
To set an app timer on aSamsung phone:
- Go toSettings
- TapDigital Wellbeing and parental controls
- Scroll to theApp timerssection
- FindMessagesor another app you want to limit
- TapSet timer
- Choose the daily time limit
- TapSave
This can help reduce repeated checking or late-night clicking, especially if scam texts keep pulling your loved one back into the Messages app.
How to find parental controls on a Samsung phone
You can also explore Google Family Link if it fits your family situation.Family Link can help manage app use, screen time and some account controls, depending on the Google account and phone setup.
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- Go toSettings
- TapDigital Wellbeing and parental controls
- Scroll down and tapParental controls
- TapGet startedorLet’s do this
- Follow theon-screen steps
This may help a caregiver manage app installs, screen time and some account controls.The exact options depend on the Google account and phone setup.
How carriers can help block scam texts
The next step is her cell carrier.Some blocking happens at the network level before the text reaches the phone.Call the carrier and say something like:“My mom is anolder adult with memory issues.She is being financially targeted through scam texts.What is the strongest SMS spam and scam blocking you can add to her line?”
Ask the carrier:
- Can you add enhanced spam SMS filtering?
- Can you block known scam and political text senders?
- Can you restrict premium SMS or third-party billing?
- Can you help change her number if the current one is overrun?
Changing her number is inconvenient.In a severe case, though, it may be worth considering.If her number is already circulating through scam lists and political donation databases, a new number could slow the flood.
How to handle political texts safely
If the texts continue, block the sender and report the message as junk.You can also report unwanted texts to the FCC through its consumer complaint center.
THE ONE THING THAT COULD PROTECT YOUR PARENTS FROM SCAMMERS
Scam texts can be especially dangerous for older adults with memory issues, turning a single tap into costly purchases or recurring charges.(Photo by Ute Grabowsky/Photothek via Getty Images)
Remove saved cards from the phone
This is one of the most important steps.If your parent can tap a link and pay instantly, the phone remains too open.Removing saved cards adds friction.That friction can stop a bad click from becoming a charge.
To remove cards fromiPhone Wallet:
- Go toSettings
- TapWallet &Apple Pay
- Tapany cardthat your parent does not need
- Scroll down and tapRemove Card
- Confirmthe removal by tapingRemove
Then turn off savedcredit cardsinSafari:
- Go toSettings
- TapApps
- TapSafari
- TapAutoFill
- Turn offCredit Cards
- TapSaved Credit Cardsand remove any stored cards, if listed
On a Samsung phone, checkSamsung Walletfirst:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- OpenSamsung Wallet
- Tap theAlltab
- TapPayment cards
- Choose thecardyou want to remove
- TapMore options, the three vertical dots
- TapDelete card
- Confirm the removal
- Verify with your Samsung Wallet PIN, fingerprint or other security method, if prompted
One important note:deleting a card from Samsung Wallet removes it from the phone, but it does not cancel the physical card.To close the card completely, contact the card issuer.
Then checkGoogle Wallet:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- OpenGoogle Wallet
- Swipe leftuntil you find the card you want to remove
- Tap thecard
- TapMore, the three dots in the upper-right corner
- TapRemove payment method
- Confirm theremoval
Also, remove saved cards from shopping sites, PayPal, campaign donation sites and browsers.Check retail apps, delivery apps, donation platforms andstreamingservices too.If the card is stored somewhere, a scam page may be only a few taps away.
Use a low-limit card for essential purchases
If your parent still needs to make occasional purchases, consider using one separate low-limit card.
This can contain the damage if she clicks on another bad link.You can also ask the card issuer about online purchase restrictions, merchant blocks and daily spending limits.
Another option is a prepaid card with a small balance.That can give her some independence while protecting her main accounts.
If you are comparing card options for an older parent, our guide to thebest credit cards for seniors and retirees atCyberguy.combreaks down features that may matter, including fees, fraud protections and everyday benefits.
Ask the bank about caregiver controls
Banks and credit unions may offer tools that help families protect older adults from fraud.
Ask the bank about:
- Real-time transaction alerts to your phone
- A trusted contact on the account
- Lower credit limits
- Merchant category blocks
- Online transaction restrictions
- A read-only login for you
- Verbal confirmation for large or unusual charges
Also, ask whether the bank can flag repeated political donations or recurring online charges for review.Do not assume the first customer service rep knows every option.Ask for the fraud department or an elder financial exploitation team if the bank has one.
Add a trusted contact to financial accounts
A trusted contact can give a financial institution someone to reach if it sees warning signs.This does not automatically give that person full access to the account.However, it can help the bank contact someone reliable if something looks wrong.
For Rob, this could be especially useful because he already monitors his mom’s accounts.A trusted contact setup may make it easier for the bank to involve him when unusual activity appears.
Consider a financial power of attorney
This is where the situation gets serious.If your mom cannot remember purchases and keeps getting pulled into payment links, it may be time to talk with an elder-law attorney.Ask about a financial power of attorney or other legal tools that let you protect her money.
This does not mean taking away her dignity.It means creating a plan before scammers and aggressive fundraisers drain more money.The right setup depends on your state, her diagnosis, her finances and her ability to make decisions.An elder-law attorney can help you avoid mistakes that create family or banking problems later.
Lock down email, subscriptions and browser accounts
Texts may be the entry point, but scammers often move people across email, websites and payment pages.
Since Rob already has access to his mom’s email and banking, he should also check:
- Email forwarding rules
- Saved passwords
- Browser autofill
- Recurring subscriptions
- Donation accounts
- App Store subscriptions
- PayPal or payment apps
To check subscriptions oniPhone:
- Go toSettings
- Tap hernameat the top
- TapSubscriptions
- Reviewactive subscriptions
- Cancel anythingshe does not need
To check Google Play subscriptions on aSamsung phone:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- Open theGoogle Play Store
- Tap theprofile icon
- TapPayments &subscriptions
- TapSubscriptions
- Reviewactive subscriptions
- Cancel anythingshe does not need
Then check the browser history and saved payment methods.
To clear Safari history oniPhone:
- Go toSettings
- TapApps
- TapSafari
- Scroll down and tapClear History and Website Data
- ClickAll history
- Confirm the action by clickingClear History
To delete browsing data inSamsung Internet:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- OpenSamsung Internet
- TapMenu, the three horizontal lines
- TapSettings
- TapPersonal browsing data
- TapDelete browsing data
- Choose what you want to delete, such as browsing history, cookies, site data, cached images and files
- TapDelete data
- TapDeleteto confirm
This can remove old scam pages or saved site data that your parent may accidentally revisit, though it will not block new scam texts.
To delete browsing data inChrome on Android:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- OpenChrome
- Tap thethree dots
- TapSettings
- TapPrivacy and security
- TapDelete browsing data
- Choose thetime rangeanddata types
- TapDelete data
This will not stop future scams by itself.However, it can remove old pages that she may revisit.
Turn on purchase restrictions when possible
If your parent uses an iPhone, Screen Time can limit purchases and app installs.
To restrict purchases oniPhone:
- Go toSettings
- TapScreen Time
- TapContent &Privacy Restrictions
- Turn onContent &Privacy Restrictions
- TapiTunes &App Store Purchases
- TapInstalling Appsand chooseDon’t Allow
- TapDeleting Appsand chooseDon’t Allow, if needed
- TapIn-app Purchasesand chooseDon’t Allow
If your parent uses a Samsung phone, you can add purchase controls through Google Play.
To require purchase authentication on aSamsung phone:
Settings may vary depending on your Android phone’s manufacturer
- Open theGoogle Play Store
- Tap theprofile icon
- TapSettings
- TapAuthentication
- TapRequire authentication for purchases
- Choose thestrongest option available
This can help if scam texts lead her to download apps or pay for unnecessary services.
Consider identity theft protection
Since your mom has already been financially targeted, identity theft protection is worth considering.Our #1 pick for identity theft protection can help monitor for signs of identity theft, suspicious activity and fraud alerts.Identity theft protection will not stop every scam text.However, it can help you spot signs that her personal information is being misused elsewhere.See my tips and best picks on Best Identity Theft Protection atCyberguy.com
Reduce scam targeting with data removal
Scammers often get personal information fromdata broker sites, old records, public listings and marketing databases.A data removal service can help reduce how much of her information is floating around online.That may help cut down on scam targeting over time.This isn’t instant.It also will not stop every message.Still, it can be very useful as part of a broader protection plan.Check out my top picks for data removal services and get a free scan to find out if your personal information is already out on the web by visitingCyberguy.com
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What caregivers should do first?
Rob, start with the changes that reduce the most risk right away.
If your mom uses an iPhone, set Screen Time Communication Limits to contacts only.Then turn off Messages badges so filtered texts stop grabbing her attention.After that, remove saved cards from Wallet, Safari and shopping accounts.
If your parent uses a Samsung phone, update the phone, turn on Google Messages spam protection, block repeat senders and enable Samsung’s spam call protection.Then remove saved cards from Samsung Wallet, Google Wallet and shopping apps.
Next, call the carrier and ask for the strongest scam-text protection available.Then call the bank and ask about trusted contacts, transaction alerts, merchant blocks and lower limits.
Finally, talk with an elder-law attorney if the problem keeps happening.At this point, you are dealing with a financial safety issue, not a normal spam-text annoyance.
HOW TO HAND OFF DATA PRIVACY RESPONSIBILITIES FOR OLDER ADULTS TO A TRUSTED LOVED ONE
Experts recommend adding multiple layers of protection, including phone settings, carrier filters and bank alerts, to reduce financial risk.(Photographer: Brent Lewin/Bloomberg via Getty Images)
Kurt’s key takeaways
Rob’s situation is heartbreaking because his mom likely has no idea how often this is happening.She may truly believe she did not buy anything.That is what makes dementia-related scam protection so hard.The goal isn’t to shame her or strip away every bit of independence.The goal is to make the phone safer before the next scam text arrives.A few settings can help.But the real protection comes from layering phone limits, carrier tools, payment restrictions and bank alerts.Scammers are counting on confusion, curiosity and one easy click.Families need to make that click harder to reach and harder to turn into a charge.
What steps have you taken toprotect an aging loved onefrom scam texts, risky links or surprise charges?Let us know by writing to us atCyberguy.com
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